我们生活在一个中文的环境中，平时用英语聊天的机会就少。但是随着互联网的发展，我们与国外的人交流的机会也多了，用英语进行聊天是最简单的方式了。那么问题就来了，怎样才能用英语进行聊天呢？我们在用英语聊天的时候，是不是要掌握一定的技巧？下面就给大家说一下，英语聊天技巧，希望大家可以好好阅读。

　　1. 多问开放式的问题

　　Ask open ended questions.

　　那些问了半天，只能让对方蹦出两个字的问题，就别再问了。想要进一步增进了解，还是聊点儿能让人滔滔不绝的话题吧!毕竟聊得多了才更有可能进一步交往嘛。

　　It is difficult to connect with someone if you ask them questions that can be answered in two words. There is no chance for a connection to develop. Instead of asking, “Where do you live?” trying asking “What do you think of your neighborhood?” Instead of “where did you get that shirt?” try “What do you think of the new store in the mall?” The longer you talk, the more chance there is for a connection to grow.

　　2. 找找你们的共同点

　　Find things in common.

　　好朋友聊得来，首先要有共同话题。如果对方说自己在银行实习，你可以提提你在金融圈的亲朋好友。如果对方爱看真人秀，那就从你喜欢的节目聊起吧!

　　If your potential new friend interned at Credit Suisse, discuss that your brother works in finance. If she is all about reality TV, tell her which shows you’re into. Friendship is built on commonalities.

　　3. 多聊点感受

　　Use emotion words.

　　讲话内容太客观实则枯燥乏味。如果你想让对方感兴趣，那就多聊点你的感受吧!比如出门旅行这种事，与其唠叨那些细碎的经过，倒不如跟大家分享你差点找不到北的囧事儿，和如何打发漫长旅途的郁闷。

　　Sticking to the facts makes a conversation dry and boring. You want to capture your new acquaintance’s interest by using emotion words so they can connect with you on a genuine level. Instead of going into detail about where you stayed on your trip to London, talk about how anxious you felt when you almost missed your connection. Instead of describing how long your commute is, discuss how much you dread that hour of your day.

　　4. 对方让你想起了谁?

　　Think of who this person reminds you of.

　　不管是身边的亲朋好友，还是电视里的名人明星，如果你发现对面这个人和其中哪位有些相似，就大胆说出来吧!大部分人还是会认为这是认可和称赞。

　　If this person reminds you of a friend, someone on TV, or a public figure, tell them, as long as it isn’t insulting, of course. People love to hear who others think they look or act like. It is flattering that someone thinks about you enough to compare you to someone that they know and like.

　　5. 讲话要有正能量

　　Say positive things.

　　抱怨和发牢骚就免了吧!人家还没怎么跟你接触，估计就快受不了了。想想看也能知道，谁会跟平时就爱大惊小怪和满满负能量的人做盆友呢?

　　Don’t complain or whine about your life or discuss how upset you are by friend or work drama. This makes a potential friend wary of getting too close. It can seem like you’re always creating drama and negative energy, which is a turn off.




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